1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,000 I definitely think I've fallen in love with you. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:05,160 NARRATOR: Previously... 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,160 I've never felt like this about anyone. 4 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:09,880 ..while some couples had cause to celebrate... 5 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,040 The feeling is there. 6 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,680 ..others... I'm not a disrespectful person 7 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,760 and I don't like the way that I'm behaving, I don't. 8 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,280 I think what we'd all rather hear is that you stop doing it. 9 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:24,600 ..faced a much less certain future. If this is the way it is, 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:26,160 I can't do this forever. 11 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,720 And for Anita and Paul... 12 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,680 My mindset really hasn't shifted that much. 13 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,120 ..it was the end of the road. Leave. 14 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,400 Tonight... I'm not going to tell the story your way. 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,840 ..Grace and Ashley continue to clash. 16 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:45,880 It's like talking to a brick wall, Ash. 17 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:48,600 And as the experiment hits its next phase... 18 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:49,920 It's In-Laws Week. 19 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,320 Brilliant. Oh, God. 20 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:52,720 Are you all right? Nice to see you again. 21 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:54,640 ..will hard truths from loved ones... 22 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,200 This has probably been the hardest week. 23 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,880 ..spell more trouble for the couple? 24 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:59,880 I just don't want you to tell me how to look, how to be. 25 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:01,800 I don't need it. I would agree. 26 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:03,360 Don't tell me what to wear. 27 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:07,720 And it's time for six more courageous singles... 28 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:09,760 I want to have my happily ever after. 29 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:11,920 ..to take the ultimate gamble on love. 30 00:01:11,960 --> 00:01:15,320 Today is now or never. Everything is riding on this. 31 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,720 But will an overprotective mum... Here's my Abi. 32 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,000 I will not see her hurt again. 33 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,480 ..derail the first new couple's big day? 34 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,240 The last thing I want is to be upset 35 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,200 by some arrogant person that comes along. 36 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:33,200 I am the one that vets everybody. I'm the bad guy. Beware. 37 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,520 HE GULPS 38 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,400 There's a seesaw! 39 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,880 Oh, I took your side. Oh, fine! 40 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,880 THEY LAUGH 41 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,320 Julia-Ruth, do you want a tea? Yes, please. 42 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:54,040 NARRATOR: It's the morning after the second commitment ceremony. 43 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,320 It was nice just to kind of tell everyone how we feel 44 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,280 and obviously we told each other we love each other. 45 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,880 Yeah, we did, didn't we? Yeah. 46 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,280 I think there were a few tears about as well. 47 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,000 There was, wasn't there? Probably from me. 48 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:07,880 SHE LAUGHS 49 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:17,120 Do you want breakfast? Yes, I'd love breakfast. 50 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,120 I did say the L word at the commitment ceremony last night 51 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:21,400 but, I'm happy about it. 52 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,520 It's big that someone's telling me that they love me. 53 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,680 Yeah, I know. I was like, "She'll say it back any minute now." 54 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,200 Babe, don't! No, I'm joking. 55 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:31,960 For me at, the moment, I'm not in a place 56 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:33,520 where I want to tell Bailey that I love him 57 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:34,920 because I don't feel that yet. 58 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,120 I am a slower burner when it comes to 59 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,520 feelings and expressing feelings. 60 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,880 I need to be 100% sure 61 00:02:42,920 --> 00:02:45,400 before I communicate something like that. 62 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:46,760 I was just ready to say it. 63 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,760 Nelly and I are currently not in the greatest of places, 64 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,640 given how the commitment ceremony went. 65 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:04,200 How do you feel after couch time with the experts? 66 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,440 Yeah, a little bit... a little bit drained. 67 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:10,800 What about yourself? Yeah, it was a really bad week. 68 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:15,400 I get bored and bored of saying the same thing over and over again. 69 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,160 You keep saying that. Because I have to BLEEP say it. 70 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:19,240 Don't raise your voice at me. 71 00:03:21,920 --> 00:03:23,520 Sorry? 72 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:26,160 I said BLEEP idiot. That's what I said. 73 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,680 It's not just how it came out. It's how you chose to say it. 74 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:35,040 You're a grown man 75 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,200 in control of the words that come out of your mouth. 76 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,440 I think, obviously, I've got a lot to work on myself, in't I? 77 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,880 But, yeah, what can I actually do 78 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,600 to rectify some of the things I've done this week? 79 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,800 It's so much easier with me if you just hold your hands up 80 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,640 and just take accountability and say, "You know what? 81 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,000 "I've really messed up here. I shouldn't have said it. 82 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,080 "I'm really, really sorry." 83 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,280 I will always respond better to that. 84 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:01,640 But, I think, for me, more than anything, 85 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:05,720 I just need to see, I guess, words put into actions. 86 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,600 I just need to see a little bit more from you. 87 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,440 Yeah. I'm really hoping that Steven 88 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:15,160 is understanding how important this is to me and makes it up to me. 89 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:23,880 Grace hasn't spoken to me since the commitment ceremony. 90 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,080 I don't really know how I'm feeling, to be honest. 91 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:27,560 It's all a bit up in the air. 92 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,720 When we got home from the commitment ceremony, 93 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,080 we decided that we should just have a bit of space, 94 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:35,760 so Ash slept in a different apartment. 95 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:38,720 Now that I've had a night on my own, 96 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,200 I've processed what it is exactly that bothered me 97 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:42,840 about the commitment ceremony. 98 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,400 We agreed, in terms of intimacy, that we'd bring this one issue 99 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,120 that we can't manage in-house to the experts, 100 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:50,520 that we had bought contraceptive 101 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:54,080 and his expectations around sex that night. 102 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:55,680 But on the sofa at the commitment ceremony, 103 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,880 as soon as we sat down, he's like, 104 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:59,600 "I picked her up and I put her on the kitchen bench. 105 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:00,840 "She's nuzzling my neck." 106 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:02,080 And I was like, "What's happening? 107 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:05,760 "Why are you talking about this?" Totally blindsides me. 108 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,560 I think the main thing that I thought Grace and I had 109 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,240 is that we worked through things really well. 110 00:05:10,280 --> 00:05:12,480 I'm intrigued to see why she's annoyed 111 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,040 or why she needs the space 112 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,040 because I thought the couch was a place 113 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,200 where we both go and we just lay it all out. 114 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,360 So, does she feel like she hasn't said what she wanted to say? 115 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:23,800 I don't know. 116 00:05:23,840 --> 00:05:26,080 I'm hoping we just get an opportunity 117 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:27,760 to just work through it now. 118 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,440 KNOCKING 119 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,640 Hello. You ready to talk? 120 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,600 Yeah. You? Yeah. 121 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:42,400 You OK? Um, yeah, I'm OK, 122 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:45,560 But I do think we need to debrief. 123 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:49,680 I think a few things just came out of the woodwork that shocked me. 124 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,760 We went out to get a pizza and we were really flirty 125 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,200 and touchy and we went back to the apartments 126 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:56,480 and then I picked Grace up and put her on the counter 127 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:57,840 while I was doing the pizza. 128 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:59,760 And I was kind of between Grace's legs 129 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:01,760 and she was rubbing her nose in my face. 130 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,200 Sorry, can you stop? You're embarrassing me now. 131 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,440 This is embarrassing. Where is this going? 132 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,320 What Ash brings to the group 133 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,000 is not a reflection of what's really happening. 134 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:12,720 There was a comment about, 135 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,960 "You look nice. Have you got a dress you can put on?" 136 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:16,920 She put an outfit on and I said, "You look amazing 137 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:20,920 "but have you got a dress to put on because I know where we're going." 138 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,840 That was what it was. I'm trying really hard. 139 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,200 You're trying. And I give you an A for trying. 140 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:29,240 But I'm going to give you a C for execution. Mm-hm. 141 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,440 Did we not agree that we were not going to talk about intimacy, 142 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:36,160 but because we'd come upon an issue that we were 143 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:37,880 not going to resolve between us, 144 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:39,840 we were just going to take that one thing, 145 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:44,000 that we had bought contraceptive, to the experts? 146 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,440 Do you think it was considerate to talk about 147 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:49,080 putting me on the bench, about nuzzling your neck... 148 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:50,640 But this is... ..completely out of the blue? 149 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:52,960 You can't not understand that all these bits 150 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:54,720 are why we've gotten to this stage, 151 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,360 why we can't move past it, why I'm feeling frustrated. 152 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,040 Like, there were things that built up to it. 153 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,560 But don't say that we're only going to speak about one part, 154 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,120 which you know I'm anxious about, clarify that, 155 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,280 and then in the middle of the commitment ceremony, 156 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:07,880 throw another bit of intimacy in. 157 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,040 I do disagree with you there 158 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,000 because we did agree that we were going to open up. 159 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,280 One aspect of intimacy. No, that's not... 160 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:15,840 Why are you saying that's not what we said? 161 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:17,560 I literally said it on the sofa. 162 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,440 I said, "There'a a piece of intimacy..." 163 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,000 Grace, I'm not going to tell the story your way. 164 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,760 Did I or did I not tell you before the ceremony 165 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:28,920 that I'm just going to tell my story, the build up to it? 166 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:30,280 Word for word I said to you. 167 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,640 When did you mention that you were going to go into way more aspects 168 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:34,680 of intimacy than I was comfortable with? That is the story. 169 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,240 Grace. Grace, you agreed 170 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,160 that you would open up about the intimacy because... 171 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:40,720 It's like talking to a brick wall, Ash. 172 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,280 Which bit is unclear? 173 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,200 I think it was inconsiderate of you to not tell me 174 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:47,600 that you were going to bring that up. 175 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:48,960 OK, I take that on board. OK. 176 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,640 And I put my hands up. OK, thank you. 177 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:56,080 Can we talk about the dress situation? 178 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:59,480 I took issue with you telling me to wear a dress. Yeah, I know. 179 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,960 In the retelling of it to other people... Right. 180 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:05,080 You said, "I was doing her a favour because it was a surprise. 181 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:06,400 "She didn't know where we were going, 182 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:07,520 "she didn't know the dress code." 183 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,760 That's not true. How is that not true? 184 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,440 I did know where we were going. 185 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,520 The fact of the matter is, you wanted me in a dress. 186 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:15,040 Yeah. Because that's your preference. 187 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:17,480 Yes. So when you dress it up as, 188 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:18,960 I was doing her a favour because she didn't 189 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:20,640 know the dress code... I didn't say that. 190 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,280 It was, you didn't know about it, I did. 191 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,200 What's going on? Why are you doing this? 192 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:27,320 I did know the dress code and the reason he said it 193 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:28,880 was because he would have preferred me in a dress. 194 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,440 I need you to not deny things. 195 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,560 You asked the experts. What did you ask them for? 196 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:38,000 A tomboy Barbie that wear welly boots and...? OK. 197 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:40,680 Throw on a...? A dress to go to a... A cocktail dress. 198 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:41,720 Did you or did you not 199 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:44,560 when I was wearing leopard-print jeans and a white vest top, 200 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,480 say, "Can't you chuck a dress on? Make a bit of effort for me?" 201 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,400 I don't remember that at all. OK. 202 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,160 And I wouldn't have worded it like that. 203 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:53,600 This expectation you have of wearing dresses, 204 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:56,080 you sat on the couch and you said you'd only said it once. 205 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,080 Grace, I didn't pick you, right? You were picked for me. 206 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,160 I know. I had preferences before I'd met you. 207 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:02,680 I'm not disputing that. 208 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:05,040 What I'm disputing is that you only said it once. 209 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:06,920 Do you understand how frustrating it is for me 210 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:08,640 in the commitment ceremony, 211 00:09:08,680 --> 00:09:10,800 when you are essentially making a liar of me? 212 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:14,160 I forgot about the first one. I did forget, I do apologise. OK. 213 00:09:15,560 --> 00:09:18,160 I'm just trying to emphasise a bit of frustration here. 214 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,480 I'm just trying to show you why it's an issue, 215 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,880 and I think you're starting to appreciate why. 216 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:27,200 I'm working on myself constantly with your views. I know. 217 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,000 I'm a fucking quarter through a book on feminism. 218 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,800 I am working hard at trying to see your views. 219 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:36,880 I am so struggling with the fact that you're waiting 220 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,560 for me to do something to pounce on it. 221 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,960 I'm not standing here with a clipboard constantly 222 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,200 ticking off this, ticking off that. 223 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:43,720 But you have ingrained ideas about women 224 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:45,120 that I need to be able to challenge. 225 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,880 Can I ask then, can I ask when you challenge them, 226 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:52,320 can we rather than like a... I don't do that, Ash. 227 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:55,000 It turns into an argument when you deny it, 228 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,240 when you dispute it, when you edit what you said 229 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:59,800 to make it something else and I feel insane. 230 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:02,080 OK. 231 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:05,120 I apologise. 232 00:10:06,680 --> 00:10:09,320 Look, Grace, I, don't want to make you feel like this, 233 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,400 and I'm really not trying to do it. 234 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:12,800 I am working at this 235 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,280 but we're still banging heads and I don't feel like we need to. 236 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:19,720 Maybe I am in the wrong for this, 237 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,480 but do I have to work at all these things constantly? 238 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:25,600 Is that marriage? Is that what marriage is? 239 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:27,040 KNOCKING 240 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,600 A golden envelope now? Like, are you kidding me? 241 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,120 Is it what I think it is? Yeah. 242 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:41,560 So soon? I know. 243 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,440 Golden envelope! 244 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:44,720 HE LAUGHS 245 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:46,040 Oh! 246 00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:49,840 "Dear Maeve and Joe, it's In-Laws Week." 247 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:51,880 "This gives you the chance to really get to know your spouse's 248 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,000 "closest nearest and dearest." What? 249 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:56,520 Brilliant. Oh, gosh. 250 00:10:56,560 --> 00:10:58,920 Grilling from the family as well as the experts. 251 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:01,200 "This is a key part of the process, 252 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:02,440 "as it's their time to observe 253 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,840 "and assess how things are going in your relationship." 254 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,280 "Good luck and remember, 255 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,400 "no one understands you quite like they do. 256 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,120 "Love Mel, Paul and Charlene." 257 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,000 What are we going to cook them, though? 258 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,680 Oh, I don't know. 259 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:17,720 I think this literally 260 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:19,360 could not have come at a better time. 261 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:21,240 Oh, I'm excited. Yeah. 262 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:24,640 I'm quite glad that you get this week. 263 00:11:24,680 --> 00:11:27,760 Maybe it could be good to sort of have their advice 264 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:29,600 and maybe they can help us through it. 265 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:31,000 I'm really glad that Grace is going 266 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:34,600 to get to see her friends because I think she really needs it. 267 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,680 Maybe they might be able to communicate 268 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,080 and articulate what I'm trying to say to Grace. 269 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,800 Or maybe I'll just get a hammering. 270 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,760 I'm the first one here. OK. 271 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:01,280 We've reached a pivotal point in the experiment 272 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:04,040 where we'll be introducing three new couples. 273 00:12:05,680 --> 00:12:07,480 Hi! How are you doing? 274 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:09,640 This is so exciting. How are you? I'm good. How are you? 275 00:12:09,680 --> 00:12:10,960 Before they walk down the aisle, 276 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,840 they'll be celebrating one final night of freedom. 277 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:15,280 I'm Leo. Nice to meet you. Reece. 278 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,000 I'm John. John, nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. 279 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:21,120 It's a chance for them to have fun, get to know each other... 280 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,120 How are you doing? Oh, how are you? 281 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:28,200 ..and wave goodbye to single life before embarking on their marriages. 282 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,000 Since I've been single, I don't think I've been 283 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,120 on more than three dates with one person. 284 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,120 Really? Yeah. And even the third one was really pushing it for me. 285 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,040 I was like, "I don't really wanna be here." 286 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:42,080 I'm doing this... to get laid! 287 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:47,840 You're like the man. I love it! I've got a manly voice. 288 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,120 They're very crazy girls 289 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:53,000 But I like that because that's me, So I think we're very similar. 290 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:54,600 I honestly don't mind like a big kid 291 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:57,240 in the sense of as soon as they're funny, I'm so weak to it. 292 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,960 Honestly, I'm literally like that, "Hey". 293 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,920 I hate to admit this but funny does get fanny! 294 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,000 THEY LAUGH 295 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:06,400 How do you normally meet women? Have you got any good chat-up lines? 296 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,560 Do you know what I like? I like a supermarket. 297 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,240 Right. If I see a girl in a supermarket that I like, 298 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,480 I will go up to her and just chuck a different name at her. 299 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,240 Just whatever name, whatever name comes in your head. 300 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:20,480 She'll turn around and go, "That's not my name." 301 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,600 And you go, "What is it then?" And she'll go... 302 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:26,040 And you'll go, "Oh." 303 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,800 It's a good ice-breaker. Yeah. I'm a romantic. 304 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,040 Yeah. 305 00:13:33,120 --> 00:13:34,840 I need to be hanging out at these supermarkets. 306 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,600 Ha-ha. That's where I've been going wrong. 307 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,960 I think my self-confidence, because I've been single for so long, 308 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,280 has probably eroded away a little bit. 309 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:45,400 Reece seems to have that in abundance. 310 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:47,480 So that's why I like the organic feel 311 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,240 of meeting someone out in like a natural place. 312 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:51,800 In the express checkout aisle. Mm. 313 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,080 What sort of like aesthetics do you want? 314 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,960 I like tall, like football. 315 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,280 Maybe an athletic guy, type of thing. 316 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:01,560 Like a footballer or... Yeah. 317 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,240 You look like someone a footballer would definitely 318 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:04,600 be proud to parade around like this, 319 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:08,400 "Look at my girl!" Oh, my darling! What about you? 320 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,760 Tell me. I do bodybuilding, so I want someone... 321 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:12,440 Do you? Yes. 322 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,400 Play, girl. I've always kind of gone for those type of guys. 323 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,600 So whether I should kind of go for that, I don't know. 324 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:20,520 I don't want someone who's super arrogant. 325 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:22,640 That's like a massive turn-off for me. 326 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:24,560 I want confidence, but not cocky 327 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,120 and just someone who's just like genuine. 328 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:30,240 One of the craziest things I did last year was enter 329 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:33,600 the World Hot Dog Eating competition for the UK. Oh, wow! 330 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:37,000 How many did you eat? I think it was about 14 in ten minutes. 331 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:38,280 Wow. Where did you finish? 332 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:39,360 I think I was about fourth 333 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:43,240 and the winner got to go to New York for the actual big competition. 334 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,080 How many do they do at a big competition? 335 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:48,080 Joey Chestnut, he's done about 61. Joey Chestnut. 336 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,720 Yeah. LAUGHTER 337 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:52,960 I don't want a party boy. No, no. Not a party boy. 338 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:54,960 No. Like, I don't mind a retired party boy, 339 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,200 but if he's like. Been there, done that. 340 00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:00,160 Yeah, been there, literally dumped my ex for that reason. 341 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:01,480 I'm not going back. 342 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:03,600 You'll know by my faces whether I'm happy or not. 343 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,680 Yeah! In fact, you probably won't 344 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,360 because I've had that much Botox, but, you know! 345 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:11,000 I'll tell you, I'll be like, blink one for yes, two for no. 346 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,240 The next time we will all see each other 347 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:19,320 will be when we're married and have our husbands! 348 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,560 I know. I'm so excited. 349 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,560 I'm so ready to have that ring on my finger. 350 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:26,600 Wifey for lifey and all that. 351 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:30,800 I am so ready to fall in love. That's all I want. 352 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:33,400 It's all I've been wanting since I was a little girl. 353 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,200 Cheers, boys. Here's to our wives. 354 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:37,960 Here's to our wives. Yes, to our wives. 355 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,160 Last day of freedom. 356 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,040 Feeling excited. Can't wait to meet my wife. 357 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:44,520 Yeah, just bring it all on. 358 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,440 And the first of the new brides to head down the aisle 359 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,560 is 34-year-old Abigail. 360 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:52,720 OK. I'm ready. 361 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,960 This is a new chapter in my life 362 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:57,840 and I want to make, hopefully, 363 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,520 my husband really happy on his wedding day. 364 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:06,040 No, not like that! I didn't mean that! 365 00:16:08,480 --> 00:16:11,840 So, I'm a veterinary nurse. I do love caring for the animals. 366 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:15,200 It's got its pros and cons. It's not a very glamorous job. 367 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:16,720 Oh, nice. 368 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:17,920 CHICKEN CLUCKS 369 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:20,840 One minute you could be chopping off dogs' balls... 370 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:22,120 DOG WHINES 371 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:24,040 ..the next you're doing anaesthetics. 372 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:25,640 You name it, I've seen it. 373 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:27,600 It's the best job in the world. 374 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:30,800 I've got two more, then we'll stop. 375 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:31,880 When I'm not at work, 376 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:34,160 fitness and health is really important to me. 377 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:36,520 Good work. Good work, team. 378 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,680 I started bodybuilding four years ago. 379 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,200 I absolutely love it. 380 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:44,200 I like to train and work out at least five times a week. 381 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,320 You can't go off plan. You have to be disciplined. 382 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:49,680 You have to be strict. 383 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:53,400 I mean, I like weighing out every single gram of food. 384 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:55,360 I love a strict regime. 385 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,400 So I feel like I have my whole life planned. 386 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:01,040 With the relationship side, it's probably not going to my plan. 387 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:03,400 Honestly, the reason why I'm single, 388 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:04,520 I don't really know. 389 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,200 It's definitely me and there's something that I'm doing. 390 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,040 I've read all the relationship books, 391 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,040 I have one right in front of me here. 392 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:12,520 It's called Why Men Love Bitches. 393 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:16,000 I've read it about ten times, but it's still not helping me out. 394 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,280 Have you been on any dates recently? Uh-uh. 395 00:17:19,320 --> 00:17:21,240 It's just too traumatising going on a date 396 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:24,280 and then it not working out and just being back 397 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,120 to square one, really. I know. 398 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:29,600 I just boil up inside. How dare they say that to my daughter. 399 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,360 My mum's British and my dad's Lebanese. 400 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,160 I'm super close to my family, 401 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,320 and my mum is so involved in my love life. 402 00:17:35,360 --> 00:17:38,160 She's definitely not afraid to say her opinion on my partners. 403 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,960 She's even told previous exes they are not good enough for me. 404 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:45,320 You've been through so much, relationship-wise. 405 00:17:45,360 --> 00:17:48,400 There are some red flags that we need to look at. 406 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:49,760 The experts probably think 407 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:52,760 they've got it right, but he has to pass the Mum test. 408 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:56,280 I think I'm more nervous about my mum's approval 409 00:17:56,320 --> 00:17:58,480 than actually meeting my husband. 410 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:00,920 I think that's more scary. 411 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:04,280 She's never approved of a boyfriend. 412 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:06,320 No. This is high stakes. 413 00:18:06,360 --> 00:18:10,480 Yeah, it's kind of do-or-die, really, on the wedding day! 414 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,240 I just want someone that I can bring home 415 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:17,600 that you, for once, will approve of. Yeah. 416 00:18:19,120 --> 00:18:23,160 I've had a lot of difficult and dreadful relationships in the past. 417 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:24,800 One significant one. 418 00:18:27,480 --> 00:18:29,880 It makes me nervous thinking about this because 419 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:34,080 I don't know how I didn't kind of like spot the signs. 420 00:18:34,120 --> 00:18:38,600 I thought he seemed to kind of have his, you know, shit together. 421 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,080 And so we started dating. 422 00:18:40,120 --> 00:18:44,640 It was all going really, really well. But he lied to me. 423 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:50,400 Um, it turns out that he was actually married. 424 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:51,680 Wow. 425 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:55,320 And it was just so hurtful 426 00:18:55,360 --> 00:18:57,600 that he could lie to, obviously not only me, 427 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,000 but also his wife as well. 428 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:06,000 How do you think that impacts your outlook on love? 429 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,920 It made me kind of lose trust within myself 430 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:13,120 because how could I have not realised? 431 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:16,240 And I did lose a lot of confidence and hope, really. 432 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,280 I feel like I've lost faith in guys, full stop. 433 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,080 But, obviously, you both have found 434 00:19:22,120 --> 00:19:24,840 your lifelong partners, haven't you? This is it... 435 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,920 I want what you guys have. Yeah. 436 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,080 From hearing it from my friends and my family, 437 00:19:30,120 --> 00:19:33,560 what true love is, I've never actually been in love. 438 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,040 So this is my last hope. 439 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:41,800 I hope my husband is athletic, handsome... 440 00:19:43,120 --> 00:19:45,240 ..close with his parents and family. 441 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,280 I want us to embrace each other's cultures. 442 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,160 My dating history is disastrous. 443 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,120 I've been through all the shit, 444 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,840 so I definitely want a guy who's honest. 445 00:19:58,120 --> 00:20:01,280 Someone that's gonna care and provide for me 446 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,840 and make me feel secure in a relationship. 447 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:10,440 I feel like it's my last-ditch attempt to get married. 448 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:13,520 Otherwise, I'm forever going to be the bridesmaid and never the bride. 449 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:19,960 An ideal first date for me would be maybe a little walk in a park... 450 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,640 Not a park. 451 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:23,920 A park, walk in a park. What? 452 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,840 First date's going to be shit. That's why I'm single! 453 00:20:28,360 --> 00:20:29,760 I'd say that I'm fun. 454 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:31,560 I'm caring and loving. 455 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:34,440 I'm excited by life, I'm ambitious. 456 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,200 I work for myself. I'm a social media manager. 457 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:40,320 I love being in charge of my own destiny. 458 00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:41,920 I'm successful because I'm happy. 459 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:43,920 I'm happy in life, I'm happy in work. 460 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:45,920 And I think that's the main measure of success. 461 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:47,760 I look like Super Mario there, don't I? 462 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,120 I'm very close to family. 463 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,240 That's in Terracina in Italy. 464 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:52,560 I look tall there. 465 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:54,000 I think you're standing on the grate! 466 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,120 THEY LAUGH 467 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,000 Sundays are normally dinner at Mum's house. 468 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,400 Buon appetito a tutti. 469 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,680 Thanks, Mum. They're normally quite full-on, 470 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,720 people chatting around the dinner table, 471 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,960 nephews getting my attention, that kind of thing. 472 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,280 My mum's family are Italian, so, I don't quite speak Italian, 473 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,160 but maybe I do speak the language of love. 474 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,360 BAD ITALIAN ACCENT: No, I can't do the Italian accent. 475 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,160 Mum's always very keen to find me a wife. 476 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:23,200 She's trying to marry me off from anyone from about 25 to 55. 477 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:25,320 I've been single about five or six years now. 478 00:21:25,360 --> 00:21:27,640 Dating in North Wales is hard. The pool is only small, 479 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,800 so you see the same kind of people on the dating apps. 480 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,680 I download the dating apps, I delete the dating apps, I re-download them. 481 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:35,920 So dating is hard. 482 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,360 I think dating for a 38-year-old man is hard as well. 483 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,160 On a scale of one to ten, how excited are you to get married? 484 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,760 I'm ten. I'm ready. 485 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,120 Most of my friends are settled down now, 486 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,760 so I'm one of the only single guys left. 487 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,880 There was actually a group chat that I wasn't involved in 488 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,320 because it was a couples' group chat. 489 00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:55,680 Shame. 490 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,200 So I had one long-term relationship from school 491 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,600 right through to my mid 20s. 492 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:03,840 We were together for a long time 493 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:08,000 from a boy to a man, really. OK. 494 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,640 How did that, if I can ask, how did that relationship end? 495 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,480 It ended with her saying 496 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:13,960 that she didn't want to be with me any more. 497 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,560 Since then, have you had a relationship 498 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,120 that has been a long relationship? 499 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,760 Nothing that's been meaningful. 500 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:28,200 Does that present any fear for you going into this experiment? 501 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,600 Yeah, definitely. Being single for so long, 502 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:35,080 you feel like, wow, am I ever going to be somebody's person? 503 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,920 I'm scared of not being enough for somebody, 504 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,560 for my wife to look at me and think, 505 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,600 oh, wait a minute, he's not right for me. 506 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:46,760 That does scare me. 507 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,440 I just don't think I've found the right one 508 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,800 in terms of progressing with other girls. 509 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:58,120 I've been in little situationships for the last few years, 510 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,440 nothing's ever taken that additional step. 511 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,160 I feel like I do fall for girls quickly. 512 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,800 I wear my heart on my sleeve 513 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,920 and I've maybe misjudged when to share my feelings. 514 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,160 I might have put people off. 515 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,080 I want people to be absolutely all in 516 00:23:17,120 --> 00:23:19,440 because when I'm dating somebody, that's how I am. 517 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,800 The perfect wife for me would light up the room when she walks into it, 518 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,800 and family would be really, really important to her. 519 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:32,240 I'm looking to fully settle down. I want a wife, I want a family. 520 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,480 I've not said "I love you" to many people. 521 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,600 So to be able to say "I love you" to a wife, 522 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:40,720 I think that would be the most perfect thing in the world. 523 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,240 Abigail and John have so much in common. 524 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,640 They're both old-fashioned romantics who want nothing more than 525 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,040 to meet someone they can settle down with and build a life with. 526 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:55,480 But, up until now, they've both been unlucky in love. 527 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,520 In her previous relationships, 528 00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,320 Abigail has been let down by people who have taken advantage 529 00:24:01,360 --> 00:24:04,800 of her sweet and caring nature. This consistent heartache 530 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,920 means she's lost confidence in her own instincts. 531 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,000 She needs someone who's kind, 532 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,960 patient, and an open book when it comes to love. 533 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,240 John could be the perfect match. 534 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,520 John is well-mannered and respectful, 535 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:21,240 but he's also a real romantic who wears his heart on his sleeve. 536 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,000 Like Abigail, he's struggled to find love in the past 537 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,000 but he remains optimistic and upbeat, 538 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,800 which is exactly what she needs. 539 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,520 And they have so many shared characteristics. 540 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,000 They're both ambitious and adventurous 541 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,960 and they both place huge value on the importance of family. 542 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,000 I think these guys have the potential 543 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,960 for a really special connection. 544 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,360 Abigail and John. 545 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,680 NARRATOR: As Abigail and John prepare to walk down the aisle, 546 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,520 for the existing couples, it's In-Laws Week. 547 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,280 Thank you. 548 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:58,000 And Grace and Ashley are about to meet Grace's two best friends. 549 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,280 If I'm being honest, I'm a little bit nervous. 550 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,040 At the end of the day, 551 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,480 these girls know Grace better than probably I ever will. 552 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,640 So maybe if somebody else really close to her 553 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,240 can see how hard I'm working and what I'm trying to do, 554 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,520 and they tell her, she might take it in a bit more. 555 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:14,960 I hope she does. 556 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,440 We'll see. 557 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,120 Yeah, I feel a bit emosh. I can imagine. 558 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,240 Yeah. Don't know where I'm going to begin 559 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,040 to try and fill them in on everything. 560 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:27,120 I'm feeling so excited to see Grace today. 561 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,160 She was quite overwhelmed at the wedding, understandably. 562 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,920 There was a few things where I'm like, 563 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,200 will they get on? Will they not? 564 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,960 I'm really intrigued. Hello. 565 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,480 Oh, my... Hello! 566 00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,040 Oh, gorgeous girl! All right? Nice to see you again. 567 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,840 I've been thinking about you so much. 568 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,880 I've been thinking about you guys as well. 569 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,440 You were crying when we last left you, and now you're crying! Honestly. 570 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,480 It hasn't really stopped. No, no, I don't mean it like that. 571 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,240 No, it's been tough for both of us. 572 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,000 This has probably been the hardest week. 573 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,640 OK. How do you feel about each other? 574 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,520 Like, do you fancy each other? 575 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,240 The main thing I've been struggling with is the hot and cold. 576 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,080 It's how Grace is in the moment. And I am such a touchy-feely person. 577 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,720 I feel like Ash is all over me. 578 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,520 Ash feels like I'm cold. 579 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,560 On the honeymoon, when I barely knew Ash, 580 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,520 because he is so tactile, I found it too much, 581 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,040 I asked him to stop and like let me lead. 582 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:33,760 I get confused with things that have happened and, like, 583 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:35,920 if we can do that, but I can't touch your hand there. 584 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,600 That's what confuses me. 585 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,000 It's just it's how Grace is in the moment, 586 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,840 which has been very hard for me to kind of navigate. 587 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,680 What are the things that Grace is saying 588 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,320 that you're doing "wrong" or whatever? 589 00:26:47,360 --> 00:26:50,080 So, it's like the whole "chuck a dress on" thing. 590 00:26:50,120 --> 00:26:51,200 I don't understand. 591 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:54,600 So, basically, there's been a few comments 592 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,280 about me wearing a dress and I didn't jump down your throat, 593 00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:58,320 but I decided, I was like, 594 00:26:58,360 --> 00:26:59,760 "Hey, I just don't want you 595 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,360 "to tell me how to look, how to be, how to dress." 596 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:06,160 And following that, you asked me to wear a dress again. 597 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:09,760 I can't work with this. We say "a dress" again, right? 598 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,520 That's not what I meant. I was like, where we're going, 599 00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,400 why didn't you chuck, like, a dress on... Yeah. 600 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:16,440 Then it was me telling her what to wear. I would agree. 601 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,520 I wouldn't love that. 602 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,680 I'm totally on your side with that. OK. 603 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,120 It just feels like a power play. 604 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,480 It just feels like a power play. 605 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,280 Like I'll hold my hands up, I said it and I did it, 606 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:55,920 so I'm gonna learn from this and move on. 607 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,240 We are learning off each other. Yeah. No, 100%. 608 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:00,760 You know, Grace has got a lot of love to give, 609 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:04,760 but it's just maybe going to be a different pace to what yours is. 610 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:09,440 Is there anything that you think could help you... Mittens. 611 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:14,240 Honestly, this is a gorgeous idea. Please sew them on. 612 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,200 He's obviously someone that needs an awful lot of affection 613 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:20,920 and outwardly shown love. 614 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,080 Grace is the opposite to that. 615 00:28:23,120 --> 00:28:25,120 Anyone want a drink then? Yes, please. 616 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,320 I think she definitely has capacity to be affectionate, 617 00:28:28,360 --> 00:28:31,520 it's just maybe not on the same level as what Ashley wants. 618 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:33,400 And maybe with time, 619 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,720 they can meet in the middle with that, or maybe not. 620 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,800 Tell me how you're feeling. Where are we at with him? 621 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,960 Ash is genuinely great. 622 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,680 It is quite ironic because the core values of who he is 623 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,880 is that he wants to totally respect you. Yes. 624 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,040 But he manages to, like, 625 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,600 disrespect you just because of how he says some words. 626 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,760 There must be somewhere in the middle that we can get to, 627 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:56,960 but that does take work. 628 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,560 I think that's true, but I get that some of the things he says... 629 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,040 I'd be a bit like, "Don't tell me what to wear." Right. 630 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:07,600 He just seemed to be receptive and very willing. 631 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,440 That's one of the things I really like about him, yeah. 632 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:11,280 That's huge. 633 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:13,680 That's what you need. 634 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,040 He does really want to give everything, and so do I. 635 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:21,760 You got it, girl. Trust yourself. Trust your feelings. Yeah. 636 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:24,400 Try and just approach now a bit more like 637 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,360 that you just want to go and have a bit more fun. 638 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:30,960 That's what I wanted to bring to the marriage, 639 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,040 I wanted to bring my fun, silly self. 640 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:35,600 Has that not been there at all? Not really, no. 641 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:38,360 She's in there, though. 642 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,760 Oh, my God. Guys, it's so hard. 643 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:47,320 But I also just feel guilty 644 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,960 because I don't really want to ring him out like a tea towel 645 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,920 and get rid of so much of the lovely parts of him, you know? 646 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,080 Like, it's so hard. Do you tell him that? 647 00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,320 Because that is, like, literally telling him clear as day, 648 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,960 I really like you, I respect you, I'm really sorry, 649 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,680 but these things are really important to me. 650 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:05,920 I need that to change. 651 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:10,280 Hello. 652 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:11,960 Oh! Wow. 653 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,480 Cheers, my dears. Cheers. 654 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,960 Cheers, guys. It's honestly so nice to see you both. 655 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,120 I'm sorry it's been a bloody whirlwind. 656 00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:20,360 It sounds like it's been tough. 657 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,000 And, obviously, Grace is feeling a lot, but trying to 658 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,440 let some of the lightness and playful silliness happen 659 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:32,080 because she's a silly, fun, loud, very caring, very loving person. 660 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,800 Yeah, I am like, sorry... Don't apologise. 661 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,520 ..that it becomes like your sort of problem. 662 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:38,560 You are my problem now. 663 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,080 THEY LAUGH 664 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,880 But, like, I don't want to 665 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,040 hurt you or damage you or change you. 666 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,960 Well, I mean, there are certain things 667 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,720 that I would want to just gently redirect, 668 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,920 but, do you know what I mean? You're so great. 669 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,480 I mean it when I say that there is 670 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,920 so much that I do really love about you. 671 00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,600 I know it feels really heavy for you guys, 672 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,880 but there is good here. Yeah, the energy is good. 673 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,280 Yeah. Just think about the work that you're actually doing. 674 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,000 And this is all good progress. 675 00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:08,520 Yeah. I see something. 676 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,520 I see that it could be really good, and I do believe it. 677 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:15,760 I think that if we could get over these bits, 678 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,680 we could be really strong. 679 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,200 It's good to have a reminder from people that know me well 680 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,280 that I'm clearly going through a lot, 681 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,480 that I'm overwhelmed for many reasons, not just Ash. 682 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:32,280 I am very pro moving forward now. Yeah, letting go. 683 00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,600 Can you visualise who you're going to see at the end? 684 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,720 I have a feeling that he's going to have some Mediterranean in him. 685 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:51,760 The family type. Exactly. 686 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,720 Are you gonna like him, Mum? 687 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:58,160 Yes, I know. We know it takes a lot to impress you. 688 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:02,320 I feel like at least he's been chosen for a reason. 689 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:07,040 And probably better than any of my previous partners. 690 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,240 All I can say is, couldn't be any worse. 691 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,760 My dating history hasn't been going very well. 692 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,720 I'm not the best at picking men, 693 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,800 so I really hope that he's the one today. 694 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,440 With men, you know, in my past, 695 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,640 I just, I can't trust them 696 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,400 because they've just ended up hurting me. 697 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,520 It's very hard to see someone hurt you. 698 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,840 It's going to make me cry now because it just upsets me 699 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,000 because it makes me really insecure 700 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:38,440 about myself and I've never felt good enough. 701 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,520 Sorry. 702 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,320 Because Abigail's character is the way it is, 703 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,560 people can take advantage of her. 704 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,800 She's been brokenhearted so many times. 705 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,120 I will not see her hurt again. 706 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,840 All right, lads, how are we? Didn't sleep very well last night. 707 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,800 No. Finally hit you? Yeah. I'm nervous. 708 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:07,120 I'm nervous. A wedding's a huge day for anyone, isn't it? 709 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,400 So you don't want anything to... Deflate you? 710 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,680 Yeah. I've been unlucky in love, haven't I? 711 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,280 Yeah. I've been trying to find someone for quite some time. 712 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,320 I had a little bit of a moment, Liam, at your wedding. 713 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,240 Everyone was on the dance floor with their wives 714 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,000 and I was on the dance floor with my mum. 715 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,920 as amazing as that was, I was like, 716 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,480 "Oh yeah, I've got no-one to bring here as well." 717 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,120 So, it's that like realisation, I haven't found love. 718 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,320 I mean I've always been the groomsman, never the groom, 719 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,440 so, today, that changes. 720 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,240 I'm putting absolutely everything into this marriage. 721 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:40,200 It's all I've been thinking about for such a long time. 722 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,080 I just hope she's willing to give it her all, 723 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,960 like I'm willing to give it my all. Yeah. 724 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,200 Just hope that my nerves don't take over 725 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,560 and she sees my personality in those first instances. 726 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,000 They're really important. 727 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,640 I don't want any doubts in her head, really. 728 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,000 Just be natural. Yeah. 729 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,880 Just be your absolute self. Don't try and change anything about it. 730 00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,240 John has been looking for love for a while. 731 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,600 It's a massive risk that he's taking. 732 00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:04,240 I think this is the most nervous I've ever seen John looking. 733 00:34:11,240 --> 00:34:14,480 Oh, my God, you look amazing! 734 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:15,960 Wow! 735 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:17,040 Mwah! 736 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:19,640 Hi, Daddy. 737 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,480 My highlight of today is going to be seeing his face 738 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,400 when my beautiful Abi walks down the aisle. 739 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,080 And if it's not lit up, I'll light it up. 740 00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:36,400 I am the one that vets everybody. It's me, I'm the bad guy. 741 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,760 I'm a good judge of character. 742 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:42,040 As a family, we want respect. Respect is number one. 743 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,080 Yeah. Yeah. 744 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:50,080 If he doesn't give that initial warmth to Abi, 745 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,600 then beware. 746 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:15,640 This is exciting. 747 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,240 Today is now or never. 748 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,880 I'm most worried about getting to the top of that aisle 749 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,800 and I'm not enough for her. 750 00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,200 I'm definitely ready to find love. 751 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,680 It's my time. Everything is riding on this. 752 00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,920 Hi. Hi. 753 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:56,760 How are you? You OK? Yeah. 754 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,360 Doesn't he look handsome? He does, doesn't he? 755 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:03,840 Nice to meet you. You OK? 756 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,880 She's gonna be buzzing. Yeah. 757 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,920 I've been waiting for this moment my entire life. 758 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,360 And I can't believe that now the day is finally here. 759 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,040 I want to have my happily ever after. 760 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,040 I've got the horse, I've got the carriage. 761 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,960 I just want to meet my Prince Charming. Just want the man. 762 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:46,320 I want to see you happy. 763 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,360 I want to see you with a partner that appreciates, 764 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,120 respects, and loves you. Then my job is done. 765 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:56,440 I'm really nervous 766 00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,680 about meeting my groom for the first time. 767 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,160 I have trusted people too much in the past. 768 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,440 I'm taking a massive leap of faith. 769 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,200 If this doesn't work, then I don't really know what else will. 770 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,000 Hi. 771 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:38,440 Hi. 772 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,160 You look amazing. Hi. 773 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,240 It's my Abi. Hi. Hi, I'm Abi. 774 00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,280 I'm John. Lovely to meet you. 775 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:49,520 And you? Oh, wow. She's absolutely beautiful. 776 00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:53,320 Your eyes are amazing. You've got stunning eyes. 777 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,400 You look amazing. Thank you. 778 00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,600 He's definitely my type, 100%. 779 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:02,800 Instantly, I just relaxed. 780 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,120 I feel like I'm like holding on for dear life. This is OK. 781 00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,960 Like it's the ride of our lives. This is OK. 782 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,520 I've got you. I've got you. 783 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,320 Hi! 784 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:17,920 Everyone's crying. I'm sorry. Don't cry. We're gonna be fine. 785 00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,640 This is my husband John. Well, not yet. 786 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,240 Hi, I'm John. 787 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:28,800 Wow. There is definitely a spark there. 788 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:32,160 But, as yet, I don't know enough about him. 789 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,640 We will see. 790 00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,800 Welcome, Abigail and John. Thank you. 791 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,920 Let us join together in supporting and witnessing 792 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,640 the commitment that they are about to make. 793 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,640 Now the vows. Abigail. Do I go first? 794 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:50,560 Would you please recite your vows to John? 795 00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:02,560 Marhaba, zawj. Ana esme Abigail. 796 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,160 Hello, husband. My name is Abigail. 797 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,720 Being half Lebanese, family is a large part of my life, 798 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,440 so not only do you have to put up with me, 799 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,520 but you have to put up with my family too. 800 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,760 I may not know anything about you apart from your name, 801 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,080 which I may have already forgotten. It's John. John. 802 00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:23,640 Yeah, I know. 803 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,120 But what I do know is that I'm 100% committed to you 804 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:29,640 and exploring this connection. 805 00:39:31,720 --> 00:39:33,720 My glass will always be half full, 806 00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,080 so I'll ensure to keep yours topped up too. 807 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,840 All I ask is that you give us a chance 808 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,600 and are fully committed to this marriage 809 00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,360 and embracing this exciting journey ahead of us. 810 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:46,680 Oh, those were amazing. 811 00:39:46,720 --> 00:39:48,520 Thank you. APPLAUSE 812 00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,040 To Abi, my wife. 813 00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:57,240 It feels like I've waited forever to find you. 814 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:00,400 I can't wait to learn everything about you 815 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,920 and understand the journey that brought you here today. 816 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,600 I asked for someone to make my life whole. 817 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:07,960 And here you are. 818 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,480 By saying yes to this experiment, 819 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,400 you've already ticked so many boxes for me. Oh. 820 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:16,280 It tells me you're ambitious, 821 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,560 open to love and spontaneous, just like me. Oh. 822 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,400 I promise to stand by your side, 823 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,000 to be your greatest supporter and your safest place. Oh! 824 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:28,440 That's what I wanted! 825 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,040 I will listen, I will strive to understand you in every way, 826 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,280 to learn what makes you feel loved, valued, and truly seen. 827 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,600 I've been happy for a long time, but not complete. 828 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,560 And now that you're here, I hope to finally feel just that. 829 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:46,160 So let's go and make the most incredible memories. 830 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,760 We have a whole love story to write. 831 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,160 APPLAUSE 832 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:51,640 They were so nice. So were yours, honestly. 833 00:40:55,280 --> 00:41:00,240 The rings. John, would you place this ring on Abigail's finger? 834 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:03,800 Abigail. Oh, yes. 835 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,920 Oh. Oh, no, sorry. 836 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:10,280 I don't want to... THEY LAUGH 837 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,080 It's a good match. 838 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:17,760 I hope and I pray that this time Abi has found her Mr Right. 839 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,480 Every mother's wish. 840 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,160 I'm hoping he's going to be every mother's wish. 841 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,200 You may now share your first kiss as a couple. 842 00:41:25,240 --> 00:41:26,280 Oh! 843 00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:28,680 Go on, Abi! 844 00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,520 CHEERING 845 00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,600 It is my honour to present to you for the first time, 846 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:46,440 our newly united couple, Abigail and John. Woo! 847 00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,840 CHEERING 848 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,720 I'm absolutely over the moon with my new wife. 849 00:41:56,760 --> 00:42:00,680 All the things I was talking about before meeting Abi, 850 00:42:00,720 --> 00:42:03,400 family values, optimist. 851 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,560 This does feel like someone that I could fall in love with. 852 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,720 I can't believe I'm married! 853 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:13,200 I do fancy my groom, thank God! I was really worried 854 00:42:13,240 --> 00:42:15,640 and he seemed so nice as well. 855 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,720 Gosh, it's so important now, probably more than ever, 856 00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:21,080 that John gets the seal of approval from my mum. 857 00:42:28,720 --> 00:42:31,760 And would it be possible just to get a kiss for the camera, if that's OK? 858 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,800 If you're comfortable, is that OK? So just... 859 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,560 There you go. Lovely. Thank you. Really nice. 860 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,640 You're gonna have loads of lipstick on you! 861 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,800 Yeah, I fancy Abi. She's everything that I'd want. 862 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,680 Nice, beautiful eyes, beautiful smile, white teeth. 863 00:42:47,720 --> 00:42:50,440 So I hope that she fancies me, yeah. 864 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,080 You walked down with your mum? I did, yes. Yeah. 865 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:56,280 So, just to warn you, she's never liked any 866 00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,840 of my previous partners. OK. 867 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:00,000 So she's quite hard to please. 868 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:04,320 So you might have a bit of a grilling from her. 869 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,720 I would love to really try and prove myself to Abi's mum. 870 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,200 So, yeah, it's scary, really. 871 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,360 It's really close, isn't it? 872 00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,440 Mum would definitely be doing all the pre-vetting. 873 00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:25,120 She's not afraid to say how she feels, let's put it that way. 874 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,840 God help him if my mum doesn't approve. 875 00:43:36,240 --> 00:43:37,760 Are you excited to see them? 876 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,280 I can't wait, I'm buzzing. How are you feeling? 877 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,360 Yeah, I'm looking forward to seeing them, for sure. 878 00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:46,240 What if their advice is get rid, pack your bags, you're coming home? 879 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,920 My family's opinion is important to me, 880 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,200 but I'll always make my own mind up. 881 00:43:51,240 --> 00:43:53,920 OK. Why, are you worried I'm gonna leave? 882 00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,320 You'd miss me now anyway. Yeah. I don't want you to leave. 883 00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,120 Meeting with Grace's closest friends, 884 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:02,560 it was really good for us today. 885 00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,520 But, if I'm being completely honest, I'm a little bit nervous 886 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:08,840 about Grace being with my mother and my sister. 887 00:44:12,240 --> 00:44:13,280 Hello! 888 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,640 Good to see you. Hello! 889 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:22,880 Hi, guys. Come in. How are you? Nice to finally see you. 890 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,640 It's so good to see you. 891 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,000 I feel very stressed about Jess and Maxine visiting. 892 00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,680 They're obviously really close and he means the world to them. 893 00:44:30,720 --> 00:44:34,640 When they hear that I've been giving their boy a hard time, 894 00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,840 I am worried that they are not going to like me. 895 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,200 You two look well. Yeah. 896 00:44:40,240 --> 00:44:44,440 Good. Well, shall I say? Go ahead. 897 00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:45,760 It's not been easy. 898 00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,680 It's not going to be. Marriage is not easy. 899 00:44:48,720 --> 00:44:50,520 We both said if it was a date, 900 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,120 neither of us would have gone on a second one. Yeah. 901 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,120 Really? OK. 902 00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:00,520 Just picked different people with different views. 903 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,160 Like Grace is a liberal feminist 904 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,760 and I've said right from the very beginning 905 00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:07,600 that I was an old-school gent. 906 00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:11,680 So there was things I was saying and doing that was triggering Grace. 907 00:45:13,240 --> 00:45:14,240 Grace panicked a little bit 908 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,560 because she thought I was misogynistic, 909 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,080 but I'm a gentleman. Like, I want to carry a bag, 910 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,880 I want to open a door or put a chair in and stuff like that. 911 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,320 But, I think you were kind of struggling with that 912 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:25,520 to begin with as well, weren't you? 913 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,200 I understand that, but this is 914 00:45:27,240 --> 00:45:29,120 the way, obviously, he's been brought up. 915 00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:30,480 It wasn't so much what I was doing, 916 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,920 it's because of the things that I said. Sorry. 917 00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:34,960 Is that fair to say? There were certain things Ash 918 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,760 was saying that I was hearing as being a bit judgemental of women. 919 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,960 But, like, you know me better... Sorry. 920 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,680 No, no, for example, the comment about wearing a dress. 921 00:45:43,720 --> 00:45:47,320 And I was just worried that Ash was like "women equals dresses". 922 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,520 Have you not seen the signs on the toilets? It's not my fault. 923 00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:54,360 It was a joke. Sorry. That's OK. 924 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,240 Grace and Ashley, I think they are doing good, 925 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:04,480 but I think that there are some issues, maybe, that they need 926 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,360 to try and sort out as well. 927 00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,160 And now, how are you feeling with each other? 928 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,280 Um, yesterday we'd both kind of hit a stage 929 00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,480 where this shouldn't be this hard. 930 00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:21,160 It feels like extreme highs and then like extreme lows. 931 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,080 It's very intense. Can I add something in there? 932 00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:24,920 Yeah. That is marriage. 933 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,920 Yeah. It just is graft every day. 934 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,800 If you haven't got the graft to put into it, 935 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,360 then you're not ready for marriage. 936 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,280 And on that note, shall I go and get us some more wine, guys? 937 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:44,840 Yes, please. I'll go and get us some. 938 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:47,720 All right, be right back. See you in a bit. 939 00:46:49,720 --> 00:46:51,640 Are you OK? Yeah, of course. 940 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,400 The last sort of couple of days hasn't been great. 941 00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,120 Like it's probably been the worst that it was. 942 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,920 Do you think she could be the one? 943 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,720 This is the oddest experience, 944 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:13,920 I think, you could ever put yourself through. 945 00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:16,360 Like, you know me, I pick up on everything 946 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:18,640 and I'm sat here watching you and Grace, 947 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,840 and you are like, "Sorry, sorry, sorry." Yeah, I noticed this. 948 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:23,440 "Oh, sorry, Grace." Yeah. 949 00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:25,320 You're not that person. Yeah. 950 00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,560 I like her but, I just think 951 00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,520 surely you should be going into something 952 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,200 and not changing your really lovely, loving self. 953 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,520 And I'm going to be really blunt with this, 954 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:42,120 you also cannot fight for something that's not fighting back. 955 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,520 I cannot sit here and go, "Yeah, she's going to be the one." 956 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:04,480 I cannot sit here and go, "Yeah, she's going to be the one." 957 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:14,160 If I felt like she wasn't trying, I wouldn't be here. 958 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:18,680 I wouldn't. 959 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:24,800 The Grace now has softened so much since the wedding, 960 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,960 and I've already seen a difference with her just today. 961 00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:29,640 Oh, that's good. So, it's like two steps forward, one back. 962 00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,760 Yeah. So this is progress. Yeah. 963 00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:34,920 I think she's lovely. 964 00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,800 She's definitely your type. Yeah. 965 00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:43,480 And for Grace, she is obviously coming into this fully. Yeah. 966 00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:46,800 Because if it affects her that much, she's come into it... 967 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,160 No, you're right. ..wholeheartedly. 968 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,160 She just wants the right person. That makes sense. 969 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:52,920 I hadn't even thought of it that way, but yeah. 970 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,120 Wearing her heart on her sleeve. Yeah. 971 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,720 Hello. Sorry to keep you waiting. Ready for a top up? 972 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:00,800 We definitely are. 973 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:04,760 So, good chat? 974 00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,040 I think obviously, like, I know my brother. 975 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:13,080 Like, he looks exhausted, and I think he's maybe 976 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:17,600 overcompensating, saying sorry. "Sorry, Grace, sorry." 977 00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:20,640 You know, that's just something I've picked up on today. 978 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:25,320 It sounds like all I've done is complain about Ash. 979 00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,400 I just want to emphasise there's so much I do love about Ash. 980 00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:29,840 Um... 981 00:49:31,720 --> 00:49:34,400 I love how fondly he speaks of his family. 982 00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:35,760 He's perpetually in a good mood. 983 00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:40,000 There's barely any ups, barely, any downs. He is so generous. Yeah. 984 00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:41,720 Yeah. 985 00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:43,880 That's nice. Oh, good. Yeah, well, it's true. 986 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,000 So I don't want you to think that I'm like... 987 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,080 No, you've just got married to a complete stranger. 988 00:49:48,120 --> 00:49:51,720 I'm not expecting you to sit there and go, "He's great, he's amazing", 989 00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,120 because you're not going to feel that way. 990 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,080 Well, I'm trying to reciprocate. 991 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:58,920 I got this A on my nails. I've just seen, I spotted it. It's cute. 992 00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:02,760 I wouldn't do this in my former marital life. That's very girly. 993 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,840 It's very girly. 994 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,040 To me, it signifies ownership 995 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,240 and your partner is your identity, and all the things I'm against, 996 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,640 but I knew Ash would like it. He does like it. 997 00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,240 Exactly. She come in with it and I lit up. 998 00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:16,680 I was like, I was so happy. 999 00:50:16,720 --> 00:50:17,760 Just because... That's all you want. 1000 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,800 Not ownership, but she's done something really nice for me. 1001 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:23,520 Aw. I think Grace is lovely. 1002 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:25,360 I think they just need to understand each other 1003 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,200 a little bit more and take time to understand each other. 1004 00:50:28,240 --> 00:50:31,400 This come at such a good time, seeing you guys. 1005 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:34,040 Yeah, definitely. And obviously seeing you guys, 1006 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:35,400 it's almost like more evidence 1007 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,800 that you are the person that you're putting forward. 1008 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,560 And I can relax a bit and stop looking for things 1009 00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:44,680 that might be, you know... Maybe stop picking up as much... 1010 00:50:44,720 --> 00:50:46,920 Yeah. ..24/7 with certain things. 1011 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:50,000 He is a puppy dog, realistically, that just wants love. 1012 00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,360 And he'll give you anything as long as you give him 1013 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:53,920 a little bit of love back. 1014 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,040 I am feeling way more hopeful now. 1015 00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:00,600 I'm back in a good space. I feel happy to be here. 1016 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:03,040 I feel gratitude I'm here with Ash. 1017 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,520 His whole, "I'm such a nice guy, you should never assume the worst." 1018 00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,800 Like, that was frustrating to me for a period of time. 1019 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,200 Now I think I kind of get it. 1020 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,920 CHEERING 1021 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:27,120 Hi, darling. Hi, John. Hi. 1022 00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:31,440 I'm really looking forward to talking to John. 1023 00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,920 He gives off the vibes of being approachable, 1024 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,240 but I am very good 1025 00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:39,360 at sussing out people in five minutes. 1026 00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,640 Is it just the four of them on the table? Yeah. 1027 00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,800 Wow. No pressure(!) 1028 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,760 I've been married now for 41 years. 1029 00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:49,800 Wow. To hubby. 1030 00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,240 And when I first met him, I knew it was for life. 1031 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,040 Yeah, yeah, yeah. That was it. Amazing. 1032 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,240 And I just want that for Abi as well. 1033 00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,040 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1034 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:02,600 The times I've spent with her crying on the sofa 1035 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:04,240 because she attracts the men 1036 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:05,800 that love themselves and seem to think 1037 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:10,080 that putting a woman down keeps them in place. Right. 1038 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,160 And then the last thing I want is to be upset 1039 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,640 by some arrogant person that comes along. 1040 00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:18,040 I don't want that for Abigail. 1041 00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,520 I know that Abi's mum means a lot to her, 1042 00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:27,360 so I want to really cement that I'm the right person for her daughter. 1043 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,640 So there's huge pressure on it. 1044 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,760 I mean, what do you need from a son-in-law? 1045 00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:35,720 Loyalty. 1046 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:40,520 Supportive. 1047 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,000 They're all qualities that I feel like I have in myself. 1048 00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,600 I just want someone to love her as much as we do. 1049 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,720 Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah. Make her feel secure. 1050 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,040 Yeah, that's what I want is to show her that, 1051 00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,880 look, you've got absolutely nothing to worry about, I'm all in. 1052 00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,640 Are you prepared to move to where Abi is or... 1053 00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:04,160 Yeah. I've said that I'd be open to moving. Yeah? 1054 00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:06,600 Yeah. For me now, the priority 1055 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,400 is finding someone to share my life with. 1056 00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,640 So, if that means, you know, moving... Uprooting. 1057 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:13,920 Yeah, of course I would do that. That's good. 1058 00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,320 You are such a smiley person like Abigail. 1059 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:17,440 Yeah, yeah. 1060 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:20,840 I've noticed that. She smiles all the time when she talks. Yeah. 1061 00:53:25,720 --> 00:53:27,320 Do you give John the seal of approval? 1062 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,880 Yes. Honestly, that is massive. 1063 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,520 Yeah? That's huge. I feel I can trust you. 1064 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,280 Oh, good. Good. You don't know how much that means. 1065 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,360 We've only spent the day together, 1066 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,360 so I'll show you so much more that you can trust me. 1067 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,280 That's what I want to hear. 1068 00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:50,360 I really will. 1069 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,560 I have seen my daughter light up. 1070 00:53:55,720 --> 00:54:00,120 He seems a genuine, really decent person. 1071 00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:02,800 My concerns have been put to rest. 1072 00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,600 Abi and John are a great match. It's going to be a success. 1073 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,680 Cheers to that. THEY LAUGH 1074 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,600 How good does this look? Stunning. Oh, my gosh. 1075 00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:21,280 Beautiful. 1076 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,080 Oh. How do you think today's gone? 1077 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,080 Honestly, I couldn't have asked for a better wedding day. Aw. 1078 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:30,120 I've had the best time. It's been amazing. 1079 00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,760 When you read your vows, I was like, wow, 1080 00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:35,920 that's exactly what I'm looking for. 1081 00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,600 There's something so much more than your 1082 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:40,160 physical beauty as well. Yeah. 1083 00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:44,200 Like, for you, I feel like the whole package is there. 1084 00:54:44,240 --> 00:54:47,040 That's nice. That's good! 1085 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:50,440 Yeah, that's kind of like a weight off my mind. 1086 00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,240 Obviously, it's just scary 1087 00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,000 because I just don't want to get hurt. 1088 00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:55,200 I think that's what I'm worried about 1089 00:54:55,240 --> 00:54:56,800 because I feel like I've been cheated on, 1090 00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,920 I've been lied to. Like, my guard is definitely up, 1091 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,200 kind of like since then. 1092 00:55:02,240 --> 00:55:04,840 And I'm coming into this with an open heart and open mind. 1093 00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,280 But I want to make sure that you are 1094 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,920 in this 100% for the right reasons. 1095 00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:13,960 I'm in it for the right reasons. 1096 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:17,960 I'm looking for love, I'm looking for a family. 1097 00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,720 Definitely. Have you been in love before? 1098 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:23,280 I don't think I have. 1099 00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:26,120 I always felt like I was the odd one out or weird 1100 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,000 because I haven't been in love. 1101 00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:29,920 I didn't think there would be a man 1102 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:32,600 that's similar to me, like in my situation. 1103 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,000 So, it's insane to think that you seem... 1104 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,360 You literally seem that guy! 1105 00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:40,240 I think this is it. Not to scare you or anything. 1106 00:55:40,280 --> 00:55:42,240 That doesn't scare me, that excites me. 1107 00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,840 Could this be the person that I absolutely fall in love with? 1108 00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,360 And, yes, right now I think you could be. 1109 00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:52,320 Oh, I'm glad. We're going to have so much fun. 1110 00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,120 I'm so excited! 1111 00:55:58,360 --> 00:55:59,760 ABI LAUGHS 1112 00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:04,280 This has been the perfect start to my life with Abi. 1113 00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:11,080 She's beautiful to look at, she's family orientated. 1114 00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:14,680 I'm ready to give Abi that commitment. 1115 00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,800 This day has been the most magical day. 1116 00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,640 It's surpassed all my expectations. 1117 00:56:29,120 --> 00:56:32,720 If my mum and dad approve, I know that he's a decent guy. 1118 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,120 Is this my happily ever after? 1119 00:56:37,720 --> 00:56:39,400 I think I have met my Prince Charming. 1120 00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:44,280 Next time... 1121 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,160 ..In-Laws Week continues. 1122 00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:50,320 An inquisitive mother... 1123 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:52,840 So, have you had sex? When was the last time you had anal? 1124 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,320 ..gets more than she bargained for. 1125 00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:59,000 No, not that. Like just sex in general. 1126 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,040 And protective friends... 1127 00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,760 I don't agree with people that shout to communicate. 1128 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:05,480 Did I not take accountability for it? 1129 00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:06,560 I think you didn't. 1130 00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:09,440 ..pull Julia-Ruth and Divarni further apart. 1131 00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:12,240 This isn't normal. 1132 00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:18,120 And two new singles... Getting married will change my life. 1133 00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,120 It's just that final piece of the puzzle. 1134 00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:24,000 ..meet and marry at first sight. Hello. 1135 00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:27,600 But an overexcited bride... Argh! 1136 00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:32,040 She's 100 miles an hour. ..rings alarm bells for her groom. 1137 00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:34,880 I hope it doesn't turn to 1,000 miles an hour. 1138 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,280 Buckle up, cos he's in for a good ride. 1139 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:43,920 Subtitles by Red Bee Media